Jan
30
RE: To how much sex should a married couple have!
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My hubby and I have been married for 4 years. We have sex at
least 4 times a day. I hope it’s something that we will
always do and not just because we are still in the new years
of marriage. We wake up together having sex, he go’s
to work, work is just up the st. so he can come home for lunch.
lunch is a quickie. he go’s back to work. his day ends
and he comes home and once again we are at it, even before
dinner. then at night before we go to bed we spend time together
talking, finding out what each of us need and want. then
we spend a few hrs. doing what each other asked the other
to do.
I think the quickie’s are good because they keep me
hot for him. and then when he takes his time every night before
we go to sleep to do every thing he can to please me as well
I please him is what keeps us wanting each other.
I hope this will always happen because we talk to one another
and please each other and not something that we will loose
as the years go on.
we have 2 kids and he is 41 and I am 31 so age so far has not stoped
us.
maby we have just found the right person to be with and we
are just a rare couple. but I say a married couple should
never go to bed with out pleasing each other. so to be fare
no less than once a day.
Jan
27
Re: Senior Desire
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I can’t speak for all older guys, but I tell my body everyday
that I’m grateful for good health. When I was a young
man, and I hadn’t been with a woman for a while, the first
pump-and-shoot lasted 10 minutes or less, it just felt
too good. The second was ready to go in 5 minutes and lasted
maybe 20. The third was ready to go in 15 minutes and lasted
a long time because I was already kind of drained.
Jan
23
RE: not chicken…just cautious
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There is a big difference between being chicken and being
cautious. Everyone should be cautious, I agree. Everyone
should have a certain set of criteria or standards. I think
those being referred to as chicken are those who set up some
standards, find someone who meets those standards, agrees
to meet them, and then back out at the last minute. That is
chicken. It is also chicken to change standards in the middle
of interacting with someone without telling that someone.
If you decide to increase your standards and the person
you are with doesn’t meet your new standards, you should
tell them and not just drop them and start ignoring them.
If you are seriously worried about STD’s, maybe one
of your criteria should be that the person has been tested
within the past month or whatever time period you think
is appropriate. That should be stated in the profile, then
you won’t be wasting people’s time by setting
things up and then backing out at the last minute when you
think about it.
Jan
19
Re: Nice Guys Never Finish First
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Its all true that “Nice Guys/Girls Never Finish First”,
I can relate to the that. However, there is a lesson in this
that one has to experience to know what kind of cake we want
and how to savor it to at the same time.
Take me for instance, I was in a relationship once where
I would do anything, give anything and move heaven and
earth to make this woman happy. I thought that she was the
end all and be all of woman kind. The sun rose and fell on this
woman. I’m sure that that angels even sang when I saw
her for the first time. I thought things were great in the
“Garden of Eden”, and hallejuah the south has
risen again. Of course, we talked and talked about our dreams
and desires of what our future could be. Believe me, buddy,
I’m sure it was true love, she was everthing that a man
could want in and out of the bedroom. She was well educated,
knew how to articulate her feelings and knew how get what
she wanted. Isn’t this what we all search for wether
it be man or woman? You bet it is!
Thats when the evil serpent reared its head and was it U-G-L-Y!
Things happened in our relationship that caused it to go
kinda sour.(I’ll just give you the cliff notes) Not
on my part, it was all good, she decided that she needed to
go and find “herself” Now isn’t that the
biggest crock of shit that you ever heard. I didn’t
think so at the time, but, yes, after many months of finding
“herself” with Tom, George and Rebecca, and
who ever, thats exactly what it was. Here’s the gist
of what she had to offer in the explanation for finding “herself”,
“here have a drink bullshit and a bite of this shit
sandwich”.
Now, I have to admit, I was pretty angry at the time. But,
as time marched on. I have her to thank for this new found
knowledge that not all love is created equal and further,
just because you love someone, it doesn’t always mean
they will love you the same way back….keep the faith……
Jan
16
RE: just say no to fat chicks…
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Hi Aaron,
I was fortunate enough to view your article in the magazine
section. I was wondering if you could help me out. I am full
time student majoring in genetic engineering, completing
two minors and working. Currently I am managing data analysis
for an NSF (national science foundation) funded biology
project. I am also a single, and sole parent. I have found
that I spend a lot of time studying and working. This involves
a lot of sitting, which is not really my favorite thing,
I like action. In the process of obtaining a degree in a hard
science (soft sciences are ologies that are humanities
based, ie psych. anthro) I have gained some weight. I have
tried to justify this to myself by saying that my intellectual
abilities are gaining enough to make up for my lack of physical
fitness. But thats just a justification. I was wondering
if you could suggest a workout routine… One that would
fit into this typical schedule: 6am wake up, clean house,
get myself and my child ready, drive to preschool, walk
to university. Attend 6 hours of lectures and or labs. Work
for three hours. Return to preschool, drive home make dinner,
entertain child. Study till 12 or 1? Any ideas on how this
BBW might obtain the ideal societally constructed image
of a barbie doll?
Jan
12
Re: it took 10 days
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Hello,
Sorry to hear about your problem.
If both your names are on the lease then you are both responsible
for paying the rent. If she doesn’t pay her half you
can get a court order to move her out. If it’s only your
name on the lease then it’s even easier to get rid of
her. Either way, don’t evict the premises (not sure
about PA laws) but in some states evicting the premises
could giver her some rights.
Talk to a legal assistant. They might give you better information
than the lawyers who usually don’t make much money
in these cases. Also contact your local city hall for laws
regarding your rights as a tenant.
Just keep EVERY document and make copies of them and keep
in a safe place i.e. not where she can find them! Make copies
of all your bills and cheques. Having everything ready
to present will get you where you want faster.
Jan
9
Re: High BP; What a 19-year-old Might Want to Do
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Were I young and exhibiting hypertension (high blood pressure), I wouldn’t ignore the problem.
After making sure I actually had high BP (see previous article) and factoring in any overweight problem, I’d look into: prior drug use, current drug use, nervous system involvement, circulatory system issues, and the combination of the above.
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Jan
5
RE: Fear of a member
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Being an adult is sometimes a big responsibility. Being an adult looking for sex, and passion more so. First you should have gotten in his face the first time he said something ugly, and told him to fuck off. If he’s looking for Sainted wome go to Big Church on here. As far as him viewing your profile ask Adult FriendFinder help for that info, they will send him a notification and most likely if he seems threatening they will delete him completely from his computer… he won’t be able to post an new profile unless he has an alternate email address, etc. He is no doubt an abusive person, verbally to a stranger online… I would guess eventually physically or even more threatening verbally in life. Post his name so others are aware of his personality, is another safety suggestion or if you know someone else who can, have them… I’ll do it for you. If he calls on the phone and harrasses you check out your local stalking laws… they are very strict and they don’t ignore this any longer. Set your phone to block private or unidentified callers… assuming you have caller ID. Most of all… be safe. If you have any of his personal info such as full name and city and he has made threats via the net call his local police and ask them to make a visit and give him a talking to. There are many ways to be safe online, read the safety tips in Adult FriendFinder, they are right there on the Home page. Relax a little… if he should contact an employer which is highly unlikely, simply tell them where you chose to meet friends outside of work is your business but that this man is a stalker trying to mess up your life. You’ll find that 99% of emplyers will understand. Privacy being a big issue outside the work place. Please calm down and don’t worry so… I’ve had similar situations… giving them back what they dished out has handled it along with deleting them and blocking them. Once I filed a formal protest to Adult FriendFinder… I never saw his profile or heard from him again. and you might change your profile name, post it more anonymously including your city (such as Metro-where ever) and re-write it so it doesn’t read to be you… I re-write mine about once a month anyways.. it draws more attention. If you even suspect someone replying under a new name may be him just delete and block. You’ll be fine… the beauty of the net!
