The first stages of an internet affair.
Filed Under Sex Stories
So,. What is it to be attached, strongly wanting to stay attached, and yet on the lookout for someone to fill ones physical needs when the one is not there, I know all of my physical needs (desires?) were not being met by my long-term significant-other anyway, but things are definitely much worse with a thousand-odd miles of countrys separation between us. My mantra has recently become monogamy sucks!
So here I find myself, a relatively introverted (but oh-so typically horny) guy, at best semi-acquainted with the modern practices of instant-messaging and chatting, trying to figure out whether there are any ground-rules as to how to start up an affair with an anonymous electronic personality of the opposite sex? I wasnt great at dating even when I actually was a single guy. Also the internet was only rudimentary back then in the dark ages. Ah, my dilemma, the 1980s guy trying to get lucky on the sly in a new millennium.
A couple of my new electronic friends are more than a few of years younger than me and single. I am still figuring out how to relate to them. Just plain sex on an occasional basis with one or more of them would be plenty fine with me, if I can convince them that the age difference between us=increased experience and savvy in the pleasure department. (Any suggestions as to how an attached, almost 40 year old guy who hasnt already banked away his first $million can convince a hot, smart and single 20-30 year old that he is worth her time would be greatly appreciated). *smirk*
A couple of other friends are closer in age to me, and may have much more in common with me, but are divorced /separated and a bit jaded. A few other friends find themselves in similar situation to mine being unsatisfied with either some physical aspects of there relationship, or with the level of time that their partner is spending paying attention to their needs. At least this last subset I have some chance of relating to (yippee!).
So finally my question: Do I take the shotgun approach to finding Ms. right-now and pepper the Adult FriendFinder network with invitations? Or do I stay focused on a few likely individuals and hope one of them thinks that I am just dandy? Any opinions especially from females would be greatly appreciated.
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